Case in point: when my American ex-boyfriend came to visit me last year from Geneva, we met two of my girlfriends (one Swedish and one Finnish) for drinks at Story Hotel.

When they had separately stood up to use the bathroom, I noticed how my ex, without speaking, also stood up.

A Swedish boyfriend gets his Haglöfs/Nike/Peak Performance skinny black tights on and wears as much lycra as possible when working out at SATS or Fitness24Seven.

Yes, Swedish guys are attractive, but there is no concept of treating a woman on a date, telling her you love her, or committing to her in marriage.Most of them just have a string of relationships, and might even have kids, but still won't marry. Well, at least in Stockholm it appears to be that way.A Swedish boyfriend buys you that Efva Attling bracelet you’ve been eyeing for years, a Sandqvist backpack or anything else he has carefully selected and wrapped. You just see each other until he one day decides his tooth brush is a part of the decoration at your place and OLW-chips and Cola on a Friday night is a given. They can easily sleep with you , and you can be sleeping and seeing each other for months, yet it won't be considered dating.A Swedish boyfriend gets the girls abroad projecting that he’s basically Alexander Skarsgård in person — an immaculately dressed, tall, well-groomed boy with good hair, jeans shorts and stylish sunglasses (preferably a pair of Ray Ban Wayfarers).A Swedish boyfriend has never put his ass on an emotional roller coaster and is always as well.