Now if you are 31 and he is 46 years, that may not be bad, because by then you would have discovered who you are and what you want in life, and as a result you personality is pretty much set, so it would be a better combination of age.They say is just a number, which is true in a sense, so we never focus on the age, we focus on the compatibility aspect of it, and work from there.And remember, it's kind of sexy when a man feels empowered enough to discuss his feelings.There are enough hurdles to making a relationship work, however old you are, so why let age add more stress?

The man claimed the teenage girl said he was "funny" and that she liked him, so he "wrote her a nice note" asking her out to dinner.Christian Rudder, president of Ok Cupid, is the guy who digs up the numbers from the millions of people using his free dating site.In his book, “Dataclysm,” he points out that who we want to be and who we really are can be two very different things.But he said the next day a police officer intercepted him as he tried to enter the cafe in Spokane, Washington, and told him he was banned because of his “creepy” letter.“I know the female Starbucks barista was of legal age to date. I merely took a chance with my heart,“ he said, in his re-telling of the incident, in which he likened being described as a ”creep“ to a racial or homophobic slur.“We have no tolerance for any such inappropriate behavior or harassment, and we will continue to support our store partners and local authorities investigating the situation,” the spokesman said. While statistics can, theoretically, be used to prove/disprove anything, smart people can usually see through the lies to focus on the numbers.