I realize that my past experiences have made me who I am today, but I still wish I could go back in time and have a sisterly chat with poor, clueless, "younger me" about relationships.
I could've written three novels, started a business, and hiked the Appalachian Trail with all the wasted time and energy.
"I don't want the takeaway to be, pick the next guy off of and marry him.
I'm saying, you don't have to do anything differently if you don't want.


Really attractive, though older than me (10 years older actually). At one point, we got onto the subject of relationships, men and women. I could answer it here, but you might as well just read the post all about it: Guy doesn’t text back Understanding Male-to-Female Attraction: Here are a couple of hot topics in the realm of male-female attraction. Here’s a whole bunch in that arena: Does He Like Me? There is a wide range of “does he like me” questions that I get. Short answer is that you can, but probably shouldn’t since you’ll be left wondering he would have done it had you not been such an “eager beaver”.
Dating can seem daunting sometimes, but if you get the little things right you could find yourself enjoying your date far more than you thought possible.
Our Dating Advice for Women section is packed with the answers to all those questions you’ve been dying to ask.
We also just released a book based on the most frequently asked questions we receive: “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want.” You would be amazed (or maybe you wouldn’t be) at how often I am asked if a guy likes them or not.
Or what it means when he didn’t text back right away. Here’s a curriculum of common situations (and what to do about them) to check out: Does He Want to Date Me Or Not?